Making Plans

Natalie and I are going to baltimore the weekend for a wedding of an old friend of mine, who i keep in touch with every now and then. One of the reasons i decided that we'd go to his wedding, is because its in baltimore, and we have lots of friends there who keep bugging us to come, so i figure lets kill two birds with one stone.
Here's where the problem is, too many people want to spend every minute that we're there with them. I want to go to one of my close friends for shabbos, But Nat doesnt really wanna go, shes afraid she wont have anything to say to his wife, and would rather hang out with her friends.
I had to let expalin to Nat and her froend why we are gonna have lunch by my friend, and they'll have to deal with not hanging out for a few hours on shabbos afternoon.
In a few weeks this whole drama will replay itself when we go to Pittsburgh for a few days, I love Mckeesport, nat prefers Squirrel Hill, so we'll probably end up in pittsburgh, but the nwhere to stay. I want to stay with my biuddy zip, nat has relatives that just moved to Pittsburgh, but for some unexplainable reasonmoved outside of teh Eruv, so we'd be stuck in teh house teh whole day, Also nat has her people that she rather stay by.....
I think one day we're gonna take a vacation to pa place where we dont know anybody, sorry israelli family. then we wont have to deal with all this annoyance. I mean even if we come to Israel, do we go to maalot or jerusalem? maybe we stay in tel aviv, meet everyone half way:)
thats all for now